What up peeps It’s your royal hottness coming at you real quick and I just want to share some empowerment with you. I’ve been seeing a lot of what has been going on in our world and it is so amazing to watch. The fear is going strong for some…not so much for others. The one thing we all want is to have connection with each other and it seems some are doing everything but allowing real connection to take place.

Men are afraid of woman and women are afraid of men, everyone still wants to find any reason and opportunity to be offended and will not take any responsibility for how their life is going because blame is easier than responsibility. So lets crush this right now shall we? ( note once you read this you cant un know it so if you want to stay a victim stop reading now and run……yea I didn’t think so.)

You all from this moment on have a clean slate. It’s not for anyone to give to you other than you making the decision and you continue to follow thru on it for the rest of your days. That being typed. We start right from here:

Men: Take your power back from women. (No one controls how you think and feel about you accept you. Choose to feel good about yourself, regardless of someone else’s opinion of you.)

Women: Take your power back from men. (No one controls how you think and feel about you accept you. Choose to feel good about yourself, regardless of someone else’s opinion of you.)

See how easy that was? It will remain easy if you stick with it. All you do it just monitor how you are feeling about what you are observing and if you think any thoughts of dis-empowerment just remember..YOU DON’T HAVE TO BELIEVE WHAT YOU THINK!!! especially if it does not feel good. Feel bad as long as you want just know that you control when you can begin to feel better when you want, you really got to allow it though. I do it this way feel free to come up with your own flavor and style you are not meant to do it my way.

I choose to be happy and then I do……whatever I want to in whatever moment I find myself in life, from being here with you typing out my thoughts, laundry, texting love ones as I’m getting this out of my heart really i have been this is taking longer than it had to but i just reach out like that), dishes, cooking, whatever.

I choose how I feel then do what I can do and I don’t waste my time complaining about thing I choose to do like I don’t have the power to stop doing it. I make my decisions and I get good with the decisions I make. I choose to do something I get good with what I’m doing. I choose not to do something and I’m Sooooooooooooo good with not doing it.

I found earlier in life I was always questioning everything I was doing and I never gave myself any peace of mind in any area of my life and man it was exhausting. So I ‘m just loving the fact that I love myself enough to remember that I’m always in control of how I feel and I feel no loyalty to those that treated me bad. They are gone and I’m happier because of it.

Real talk don’t get it twisted this is all about how I choose to feel nothing has change, no one has to change who they are so that I can feel good. Everyone and everything are off the hook and it all comes down to me. My evolution is ever changing I’ll never be done but I get to choose how it can all be fun. I love myself and then…..I love my life and then……I laugh a lot and then…..Life will do what it do…I choose and then….I love you guys. Til next time.