Some quick points on becoming a better problem solver.
Problems are not permanent: It’s just a limitation of the moment.
Your problems are not pervasive: Meaning that a problem in one area of your life does not mean that your whole life is screwed up because of that one area.
Your problem is not personal: What I mean here is that there is nothing wrong with you.
You just have made a habit out of making a choice that keeps giving you the same negative results. Make a fresh new choice from where you are now, and how you feel in this present moment.
Choose not to create from out of your past experiences. When you create from — “I’ve failed in the past,” — guess what — you will fail in the present, because you allow those depressing feelings to dominate your mindset and creating. Now if you create from — “I’ve succeeded before and I will again,” this creates a powerful anticipation and you will create a different result.
Don’t be realistic: Nothing in this world was accomplished by someone being realistic. Everything that we have on this planet that is man-made, came from someone who had an idea and they committed themselves to its completion, despite what could be interpreted as failure.
They believed in their heart that it could be different than it has ever been before, and they did not stop until it was complete. You can do the same my friends.
there you have it my friends just a quick idea on how you can re frame how you experience life’s challenges and just make it easy to take it easy as best you can.