OK peeps here we go this is Hot chocolate coming at you with some ways to come together. Lets get to it and be warned this is not for the faint of heart nor easily offended. We all see how they are pushing the drama cause they have ways to influence your behavior, but they do not know how to handle us in unity and in peace. Now peace and war can come and go like day and night but in any case we still get to choose and take Full responsibility for ourselves as empowered human beings rather than not. Lets begin.
On the subject of Physical touch: we touch each other for only 4 reasons.
1. To Heal
2. To create bonds
3. To be intimate
4. To harm.
Nothing will ever go outside of this simple structure. Now that you have this it can be easier for you to decide how you will experience and give meaning to the hands on experience.
Men: Take your power back from women. (No one controls how you think and feel about you accept you. Choose to feel good about yourself, regardless of someone else’s opinion of you.)
Women: Take your power back from men. (No one controls how you think and feel about you accept you. Choose to feel good about yourself, regardless of someone else’s opinion of you.)
So now lets just admit that men and woman have done some bad things to each other through out our history and choose to begin anew. We are sorry as a species and we would like to treat each other as friends or whatever we want to call our relating to each other just as long as we are both happy and in agreement.
Men, Woman. Never in my life have I not had a sexual urge or attraction that was not generated by me. So each of use as human beings need to take full responsibility for that as individuals. No more of this. .the devil made me do it B.S, I could not help myself. No outfit worn by any woman I don’t care how it looks has ever said to me come on over hear and touch me without my consent. I don’t care how good I’ve looked on any given day has anything I’ve ever worn been a sign that says hey come on over and get a grip ladies.
Men remember know one can make you feel anything you generate all emotions and the person in front of you will either echo, magnify, refine them or decline them.
Women remember know one can make you feel anything you generate all emotions and the person in front of you will either echo, magnify, refine or decline them.
If we refer back to the four reasons of touch it becomes clear. This came to me from asking myself the question as I was reaching out to my fellow human beings…Why am I wanting to touch this person? and one of the four was revealed. I offer these words as empowerment to those that can choose it. I’m not making something wrong for me to be right, we cannot move ahead as long as we continue to play small in our lives. WE ARE SO STRONG WE CAN CHOOSE BONDAGE AND CALL OURSELVES WEAK. Real talk. We free associate emotions and meaning to our daily existence to what we observe all the time and now you get to choose how you will do this now having been made aware that you are doing it.
You control what you allow to have influence over you. As you go about your day ask yourself what are you influenced by? Are you influenced by feelings of joy, peace, contentment, excitement, competence and other feeling good emotions. Are you under the influence of not so good feeling emotions and then taking actions under those not so feeling good emotions and say its all to much I’m overwhelmed….we are human we will always bounce back and fourth and we can at least be more aware…and its all good.
What I have personally done and still do with people is tell them flat out. I am not in your life for pain stress trauma and drama. You either die the hero…or live long enough to see yourself become the villain. If at anytime you are looking at me and not seeing me as I am and you are angry because I’m not your fantasy guess what that is on you. I’m not going to cater to your insecurity nor will I become something I’m not so you will accept me.
As I reflect right now I realize that all the times I was upset with people or hurt by people it was because I did not see them as they were in that moment, and maybe the idea of who I thought they were was never who they were meant to be. Man that is so huge for me to “Real Eyes” that. I remember someone actually told me that they were not strong enough to be what I wanted them to be…for me. Heartbreaking at the time but so real and authentic for us both. I got it when they said it and I hated it and loved it at the same time.
I am an Empowered man. This is my choice. I will look to myself for my love, acceptance and approval. I will choose to be one who is a solution base thinker rather than one who focuses on the problem. I am excited about my ever evolution as a human being and I hope in some way you will choose like this YOUR WAY FOR YOU as well. I am Optimistic and full glee I am happy Cuz I said so and you can call me… Jeoffree.