For years I ran and hid from it, shivering in the corner hoping that I’d never have to face it. One day I grew tired of being scared, so I opened the door that hid my fear only to find it was no longer there, I was the one who had kept myself bound for all that time.- Zen teaching
As I said in previous posts your whole goal is to be happy and successful with what you’re doing. I think that may be our entire goal, yes? If not you would not have read this far so way to go for loving yourself enough for making it here. You will also face obstacles or barriers that will challenge you in every way, shape or form.
Fear happens to be one of those obstacles. Remember that fear is an illusion– Fantasized Experience Appearing Real one that can really get in our way of being successful and happy. Fear is made up of thoughts that keep you paralyzed. It’s really all in your mind.
Rather than letting fear prevent us from achieving what we desire, let’s blow through the illusion and continue to decide to be successful. You will be in more of an acting mode than reacting.
Maybe you are an entrepreneur, or someone that has a job, that’s on their way to be an entrepreneur. Some of the things that drive us to do what we do, like being in control of our destinies, making our own money, pulling our own strings. To take care of our families, to travel, whatever your aspirations are. When we begin, we don’t know how we are going to do it. We just decided that we will do it.
Initially, there is internal fear that says I don’t know if I can do this – I’m not good enough. Others may also try to throw up roadblocks with their own doubts and fears by projecting them at you. Do you listen and let those worries stop you, or do you believe in yourself and your dream enough to continue moving forward? There is now such things as a problem it’s a point of life that you can look at and say what’s the best thing I can do about this situation? What’s really there are many opportunities to do our best, use all our skills, and to gain some confidence and success.
We are all filled with myriad fears at different times in our lives: fear of success yeah I know I was like really! When I heard that it was pretty common to! Wow! fear of failure, and fear of rejection … you name it. My advice to you: Get over them! It can be just as easy to do as it is say, and how perfect is that because you have been the one saying I want it but I can’t have it. How about saying yes I choose it and I’m going to prepare to receive it. Believe in yourself. Focus on what thoughts feeling and actions that service you. Then you will be far greater of helping others, and keep it moving forward. don’t worry about all those perceptions that make you feel basically, afraid. When you have a fear pop up try a T.N.T with it (Transformative New Thought shameless self plug!!!) and try this, what fear can mean that you are Forgetting Everything’s All Right.
Did you know?
The only reason at anytime we have anxiety over something we want to accomplish with our lives. What we are doing is imagining a goal, and we see ourselves failing at it. Now to bypass that, what you can do is take the same image and imagine it to its success and guess what, no anxiety. Really feel how wonderful it is to know that you can accomplish that goal. Please note : ALL YOU DID WAS CHANGE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT IT! Sometimes I get excited. If you feel it, know it, then you will do it, you will have it.
You have to know you don’t need anyone else permission to succeed. Feel the difference? All within the simple shift of thinking about how you’re going to be successful makes all the difference. We have all been at that place where we just don’t know what is going to happen next in our lives and when that comes up we can choose to be uncomfortable and hopeful instead of uncomfortable and hopeless.
The Only price you will ever have to pay for success is just simply the belief that you can have it. Did you know that the only time that success is costly is when you doubt you will have it and you are taking actions under that doubt? You get what you expect.
Expectations my friends is this, a desire, believing you can have it=expectations. Now it is also desire and doubting it will happen=expectations. Which do you choose? Remember you get what you think about- I feel it’s pretty obvious now that you have a fresh new choice. That what you are, is a wonderful magnificent chooser and creator, you are in full control of how you choose to feel which will lead to the inspired actions which will be your dreams falling into place.